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	<title>seva journal &#187; suffering argument conversation presence peace yoga</title>
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		<title>presence of mind</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 01:42:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes there are going to be people whose paths I cross with that are going to be unpleasant.  I am sure no matter who you are this can and will happen.  A conversation can to turn into a battle to be won or lost by some standards. Recently, I had the opportunity to interact with [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-65" title="suffering" src="http://www.sevayoga.net/journal/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/suffering.jpg" alt="suffering" width="239" height="240" />Sometimes there are going to be people whose paths I cross with that are going to be unpleasant.  I am sure no matter who you are this can and will happen.  A conversation can to turn into a battle to be won or lost by some standards.</p>
<p>Recently, I had <span style="background-color: #ffff33;"><span style="background-color: #ffffff;">the opportunity </span></span><span style="background-color: #ffffff;">to interact with someone </span><span style="background-color: #ffff66;"><span style="background-color: #ffffff;">who seemed to be suffering and wanting me to suffer too</span></span><span style="background-color: #ffffff;">.</span> I tried to respond with compassion and kindness but the conversation continued to move into a more and more negative tone.  Anger and judgment thrown like daggers can attract like responses back.  I do not want to play this now.  Ever.</p>
<p>I was left feeling drained, second guessing my replies and also a bit sad.  It is difficult to not take on some of that suffering when you are so close to it.</p>
<p>Closing the moment, I tried let it go and let it pass through me.  I do not want to still be holding on to these emotions if another chance meeting occurs.  I would like to let the next meeting be new and just that particular moment, no ties to the last.  The past can stay in the past.  I am present.</p>
<p>-michele</p>
<p><em>photo courtesey of <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/cinocino/189061356/" target="_blank">cinocino</a></em></p>
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